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Harnesses, jocks, underwear and club gear from Breedwell, Cell Block 13, Timoteo, Locker Gear, *ssTricks, SUKREW and Absolu Male. Made for our community, curated in North Carolina.

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  • Absolu Male

    Absolu Male

    Erotic menswear and underwear designed and sewn in France: faux-leather, wet-look, mesh...

    Absolu Male

  • Breedwell

    Breedwell

    Club and circuit gear built to be seen: harnesses, glow and UV-reactive...

    Breedwell

  • Cell Block 13

    Cell Block 13

    Los Angeles fetish-meets-fashion gear: harnesses, singlets, neoprene, jocks and zip-access shorts. Includes...

    Cell Block 13

  • Locker Gear

    Locker Gear

    Sport-meets-fetish gear from Spain: harnesses, open-access jocks, singlets and matching sets. Spanish...

    Locker Gear

  • *ssTricks Apparel

    *ssTricks Apparel

    Loud, playful gear: color-block harnesses, jocks, briefs, arm bands and matching sets.Coming...

    *ssTricks Apparel

  • SUKREW

    SUKREW

    Fitted men's underwear and swimwear from East London: briefs, thongs, jockstraps and...

    SUKREW

  • Timoteo

    Timoteo

    Los Angeles-born premium men's underwear, swimwear and clothing from the house behind...

    Timoteo

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Not sure where to start? Take the 2-minute fit quiz.

Tell us your vibe, your fit, how bold you want to go and what feels good on your body. We'll match you with picks from every brand we carry, in your size. Every body, every identity, every comfort level.

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  • 1Pick what you're shopping for and your vibe
  • 2Choose your fit, coverage and comfort needs
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Harness Season Is Every Season

Every harness from Breedwell, Cell Block 13, *ssTricks, Locker Gear and Absolu Male in one place, highest-ranked first.

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*SSTRICKS APPAREL

Loud, Proud & Party-Ready

Color-block harnesses, jocks and matching sets made to be seen on the dance floor, at Pride and everywhere in between.

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Breedwell Best Sellers

The top Breedwell styles, ranked by the brand's own best sellers and price point.

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Cell Block 13 Best Sellers

The top Cell Block 13 styles, ranked by the brand's own best sellers and price point.

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LOCKER GEAR

Locker Room Energy, Imported from Spain

Open-access jocks, harnesses, singlets and three-piece sets with a sport-meets-fetish edge. Spanish sizing runs slightly small, so size up if you're between sizes.

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TIMOTEO

Off-Duty, Still On

Premium shorts, swim, underwear and tops from the Los Angeles house behind Cell Block 13. For brunch, the beach and the morning after.

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SUKREW Classic Brief in Vermilion

SUKREW

Underwear and Swim, Designed in London

Bold colors, sheer fabrics and signature jacquard waistbands. Shop the newest Sheer and Vermilion & Eminence collections, coming soon to Boxer and Brief.

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Absolu Male mesh T-shirt and faux-leather pants

ABSOLU MALE

Erotic Menswear, Made in France

Faux leather, wet-look and mesh, designed and sewn in France. Shop the Alpha Male and Afterdark collections, from harnesses and jockstraps to zip briefs and singlets, coming soon to Boxer and Brief.

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Absolu Male Best Sellers

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EVERY BODY. EVERY KINK. EVERY KIND OF QUEER.

Built for Our Community

For the circuit boys and the leather daddies, the pups and the handlers, the jocks, the bears, the twinks, the trans and nonbinary folks and everyone still figuring it out. Boxer and Brief brings together the gear brands our community actually wears, all in one place, with sizing help from people who get it.

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THE GEAR EDIT

Good gear.
Better guidance.

Your first harness or your next favorite look. Get the fit information you need and keep track of what is coming.

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MADE WITH THE COMMUNITY

Your body. Your style. Your story.

Interested in shaping our next shoot? We welcome adult models, photographers and creators. No experience required to introduce yourself.

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Why Boxer and Brief

  • Discreet Packaging

    Plain outer packaging on every order. What's inside is your business.

  • The Brands You Want

    Breedwell, Cell Block 13, Timoteo, Locker Gear, *ssTricks, SUKREW and Absolu Male, all on one site.

  • Sizing Help

    Every brand fits differently. Ask us before you buy and we'll help you nail the fit.

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  • Rooted in North Carolina

    An independent shop for the Southern queer community, shipping nationwide.